10 Things I Learned in The First Year of Homesteading
A Learning Curve with Great Rewards
Embarking on homesteading is like diving into a new world—minus an accurate GPS and with a side of dirt under your nails! The past 4 years of economic, political, and social turbulence led to a wildfire of increased interest in self-sufficiency and sustainability. This has sparked a growing curiosity among people on mastering the ‘how-to’. Many are drawn to this lifestyle for other reasons- dreaming of fresh eggs, home-grown vegetables, and the satisfaction of living off the land. Yet, as I discovered during my first year, homesteading is not just about adopting a new lifestyle; it’s about cultivating a mindset.
Homesteading is as Much a Mindset as it is a Lifestyle
Homesteading requires resilience, creativity, and a willingness to learn from mistakes. We become expertly resourceful, trading convenience for the joy of DIY victories and finding happiness in getting our hands delightfully dirty. It’s not just about growing food or raising animals but about cultivating a sense of independence and connection to the earth.
Ignore the Critics
One of the most valuable lessons I learned is that you don’t have to conform to anyone else’s idea of what homesteading should look like. Start with what you need and build on it. Some critics might say you’re not doing enough, and others will say you’re doing too much; remember, homesteading is personal, and everyone’s needs and resources are different.
Keep Your Plans Flexible
Plans will change, sometimes dramatically. You might envision a thriving vegetable garden and sadly end up with many brown, crunchy plants instead.
In my first season at the new house, I mapped out the gardening spaces for the entire year. But I soon realized I’d misjudged the sun’s position for each season—the pecan and peach trees up cast shadows over areas needing full sunlight. Many of my plants needed to be moved to the other side of the garden. Luckily, I still had many in starter pots and big containers, so it wasn’t too hard!
Homesteading teaches adaptability. As you level up in experience, watch your goals transform like a chameleon. Needs will shift with the seasons, especially if you’ve got little ones. Keep an open mind and a stockpile of patience; every change can be a fun plot twist in your learning adventure!
Use What You Already Have
Dave Ramsey famously advises, “Live like no one else now so you can live like no one else later.” This rings true in homesteading. Before rushing out to buy new tools or materials, be creative with what you already have. Gaining experience (and money) is like gradually adding tools to your investment toolkit; you’ll be nailing those future choices with precision and better tools soon enough!
Start with Temporary Solutions
Not everything needs to be perfect from the start. Use temporary solutions as stepping stones and adjust as necessary. A makeshift greenhouse or a simple compost pile can serve well while you learn and refine your methods.
Ditch the Instagram Perfection
It’s easy to feel pressured to create everything Instagram-worthy. But natural beauty lies in authenticity. Your garden might be messy, and your hens might wander into the flower beds—and that’s okay. Focus on functionality and what works for you.
Give Yourself Time to Learn
Grace is more productive than guilt or shame. Mistakes are inevitable, but they’re also valuable teachers. Be kind to yourself, give yourself time to learn, and appreciate your progress rather than dwelling on setbacks.
Enjoy the Process as Much as the Results
Homesteading is a continuous learning experience, and the joy is in the process. Celebrate small victories and appreciate the simple pleasures, like the taste of a ripe tomato or the sound of rain in the garden.
Friends and Family Might Not Understand You
Not everyone will understand your decision to homestead, and that’s okay. Stick to your beliefs like glue and make sure they’re the super-strong kind! You’re creating a life that aligns with your values- that takes courage and determination.
Find a Community
Lastly, find a community of people who understand the ups and downs of homesteading. They’ll be there to offer support, advice, and friendship. Be the friend who returns the favor because one-sided friendships are like a one-hand clap, not practical or desired!
With Love, From Me
The first year of homesteading is filled with challenges and triumphs. It’s a year of growth in the garden and within yourself. Even with the hurdles, there’s nothing quite like the joy of living in harmony with nature and chasing a self-sufficient life—it’s the ultimate eco-friendly thrill ride! This is only the beginning, and I am determined to continue this rewarding homesteading journey. Join me and discover the many joys of this profound way of life.
